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Saturday 27 August 2011

Renungan Daripada Datuk Dr. Fadhilah Kamsah

Oleh - Dr. Fadhilah Kamsah


1. Selalu menghargai usaha dan penat-lelah isteri, terutama isteri
yang bekerja dan sama-sama terpaksa menanggung hutang suami .

2. Bila isteri bercakap, pandanglah mukanya dan buka telinga
luas-luas. Biar apa yang dikatakannya masuk telinga kanan dan
tersumbat di telinga kiri. Sambil tu otak suami kenalah memproses
informasi yang diterima daripada isteri dengan bijak serta prihatin.

3. Jangan sekali-kali membandingkan masakan isteri atau cara
isteri menghias rumah dengan mak anda kecuali masakan/cara menghias
isteri anda lebih baik dan canggih dari emak anda.

4. Jangan demand sex sekiranya isteri tak ada mood atau letih.
Agama suruh kahwin bukan semata-mata untuk penuhi nafsu syahwat saja.
I thought wives are only supposed to provide that service, bukannya
jaga anak, masak, mencuci dan sebagainya!

5. Kalau pasangan dah ada anak, sama-samalah menjaga anak . Benih
dari awak juga. Ada suami, isteri sedang makan disuruh cebok kencing n
berak anak sedangkan suami duduk tersandar kekenyangan macam maharaja.

6. Jangan sekali-kali duduk tersandar depan TV atau relax-relax
sedangkan isteri bila balik dari kerja, buka saja kasut terus masuk
dapur, memasak, mengemas, membasuh, kejar anak dsbnya. Berbulu mata
dan sayu hati isteri bila kami tak cukup tangan nak menguruskan
rumahtangga sedangkan suami lepas tangan.

7. Sekiranya suami makan dahulu, tinggalkan sedikit lauk utk
isteri. Jangan bedal semua sampai turn isteri yang tinggal cuma
ekor ikan sekerat, janggut sotong dan ekor taugeh. Frust, tau tak!

8. Kalau nak ajak member bertandang ke rumah, beritau isteri dulu ,
kalau boleh sehari-dua in advance. Jadi bolehlah dia memasak yang
best-best dan mengemas rumah cantik-cantik. Bayangkan perasaan isteri
kalau tetamu datang terpacak sedangkan kain-baju masih berlonggok
belum sempat dilipat, permainan anak masih berselerak dan isteri cuma
masak mi maggi saja (bukan soal malas masak tapi nak tolong jimatkan
perbelanjaan keluarga)

9. Jangan sekali-kali menyakat isteri tentang saiz badannya yang
semakin sihat atau semakin melidi. Tengok body sendiri dalam cermin
dulu.

10. Jangan kentut depan isteri. Masa bercinta dulu kenapa boleh
control kentut?

11. Hormatilah ibu-bapa dan kaum keluarga isteri walaupun anda Cuma
main wayang, bodek mereka masa nak mengurat isteri anda dulu. Jangan
sekali mencaci mereka walaupun secara bergurau.

12. Jangan kedekut dengan isteri serta keperluan rumahtangga.

13. Jagalah maruah anda sebagai suami dan lelaki. Selagi boleh,
jangan bebankan isteri dengan masaalah kewangan anda . Selalunya
perempuan ni, semakin suami "degil" tak nak minta pertolongan, selagi
itulah dia rela nak tolong.

14. Jangan bersepah dan bersikap pengotor. Dah buka baju, letakkan
dalam bakul baju kotor, dah cungkil gigi, buanglah dalam bakul sampah,
bila dah guna ubat gigi bubuh balik penutupnya, dah ambil sesuatu
barang simpan balik ditempat asal, dah berak flush. Susah sangat ke
nak buat macam tu? Semua nak kena ajar ke?

15. Rajin-rajinlah bertanya isteri kalau dia perlukan bantuan anda
dengan kerja rumah/menjaga anak. Tapi jangan tanya dua tahun sekali.
Jangan tunjuk rajin bila ada tetamu di rumah saja .

16. Hormatilah isteri anda sebagaimana anda mahu dihormati. Isteri
pun manusia. Allah berikan banyak keistimewaan kepada para isteri tapi
diputar-belitkan tafsirannya oleh orang lelaki untuk kepentingan diri
sendiri.

17. Jangan main kayu tiga dengan perempuan lain. Main lain lagi tak
boleh. Kalau isteri awak yang buat, tentu awak tak boleh tolerate,
jadi mengapa isteri awak kena tolerate kalau awak buat?

18. Kalau tak menyukai sikap atau perbuatan isteri, tegurlah secara
baik, jangan asyik nak menengking aja. Kalau awak sakit nak mati
nanti, siapa yang kena jaga awak? Bai jual roti? Apek jual sayur?
Jiran sebelah rumah awak?

19. Kalau isteri nampak tak sihat, cepat-cepatlah bawa jumpa
doktor. Tunjuklah anda mengambil berat tentang dirinya. Jangan sampai
isteri nak mampus pun tak perasan .

20. Berbincanglah dengan isteri sebelum sesuatu keputusan dibuat .
Walaupun suami megah ada kuasa veto, tak jadi bapok kalau pendapat
isteri diambil kira. Pokok pangkalnya ialah timbangrasa dan saling
menghargai. Cubalah ketepikan ego yang keterlaluan . Bukannya laku bila
dah mati nanti.

21. Dalami agama dan bimbinglah anak isteri dengan ikhlas seperti
yang dituntut agama. Ingat, kalau seorang suami masuk syurga, besar
kemungkinan isteri pun masuk syurga. Kalau suami masuk neraka belum
tentu isteri juga masuk neraka. Kalau isteri masuk neraka, besar
kemungkinan suami juga masuk NERAKA tapi kalau isteri masuk syurga
belum tentu suami pun masuk syurga.Ini bukan rekaan saya tapi saya
dengar dari seorang ustaz.

22. Berusahalah dengan ikhlas untuk mempertahankan keharmonian
rumahtangga. Jangan buat apa yang isteri tak suka. Percayalah, kalau
suami buat baik sekali dengan isteri, isteri balas sepuluh kali

23. Jangan buat donno kalau isteri merajuk atau berkecil hati .
Kalau perlu minta maaf, minta maaf, kalau perlu dipujuk, pujuk. Hati
orang pompuan ni sensitif. Kalau kami rasa suami tak ambil kisah,
perasaan bagai dihiris-hiris. Perkara yang dipandang remeh oleh suami
boleh menjadi kanser kepada isteri. Kepada para suami khususnya dan
kaum lelaki amnya, janganlah dianggap masalah hati dan perasaan orang
perempuan ni enteng sahaja.


Allah s.w.t. berfirman

"Dan ketahuilah bahawasanya Allah mengetahui apa yang didalam hatimu,
sebab itu berhati-hatilah dengan Tuhan"

Renung-renungkan...dan selamat beramal..

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Tuesday 23 August 2011

112 ways to say... I LOVE YOU

112 ways to say... I LOVE YOU

English - I love you
Afrikaans - Ek het jou lief
Albanian - Te dua
Arabic - Ana behibak (to male)
Arabic - Ana behibek (to female)
Armenian - Yes kez sirumen
Bambara - M'bi fe
Bangla - Aamee tuma ke bhalo aashi
Belarusian - Ya tabe kahayu
Bisaya - Nahigugma ako kanimo
Bulgarian - Obicham te
Cambodian - Soro lahn nhee ah
Cantonese Chinese - Ngo oiy ney a
Catalan - T'estimo
Cheyenne - Ne mohotatse
Chichewa - Ndimakukonda
Corsican - Ti tengu caru (to male)
Creol - Mi aime jou
Croatian - Volim te
Czech - Miluji te
Danish - Jeg Elsker Dig
Dutch - Ik hou van jou
Esperanto - Mi amas vin
Estonian - Ma armastan sind
Ethiopian - Afgreki'
Faroese - Eg elski teg
Farsi - Doset daram
Filipino - Mahal kita
Finnish - Mina rakastan sinua
French - Je t'aime, Je t'adore
Frisian - Ik hâld fan dy
Gaelic - Ta gra agam ort
Georgian - Mikvarhar
German - Ich liebe dich
Greek - S'agapo
Gujarati - Hoo thunay prem karoo choo
Hiligaynon - Palangga ko ikaw
Hawaiian - Aloha Au Ia`oe (Thanks Craig)
Hebrew - Ani ohev otah (to female)
Hebrew - Ani ohev et otha (to male)
Hiligaynon - Guina higugma ko ikaw
Hindi - Hum Tumhe Pyar Karte hae
Hmong - Kuv hlub koj
Hopi - Nu' umi unangwa'ta
Hungarian - Szeretlek
Icelandic - Eg elska tig
Ilonggo - Palangga ko ikaw
Indonesian - Saya cinta padamu
Inuit - Negligevapse
Irish - Taim i' ngra leat
Italian - Ti amo
Japanese - Aishiteru
Kannada - Naanu ninna preetisuttene
Kapampangan - Kaluguran daka
Kiswahili - Nakupenda
Konkani - Tu magel moga cho
Korean - Sarang Heyo
Latin - Te amo
Latvian - Es tevi miilu
Lebanese - Bahibak
Lithuanian - Tave myliu
Malay - Saya cintakan mu / Aku cinta padamu
Malayalam - Njan Ninne Premikunnu
Mandarin Chinese - Wo ai ni
Marathi - Me tula prem karto
Mohawk - Kanbhik
Moroccan - Ana moajaba bik
Nahuatl - Ni mits neki
Navaho - Ayor anosh'ni
Norwegian - Jeg Elsker Deg
Pandacan - Syota na kita!!
Pangasinan - Inaru Taka
Papiamento - Mi ta stimabo
Persian - Doo-set daaram
Pig Latin - Iay ovlay ouyay
Polish - Kocham Ciebie
Portuguese - Eu te amo
Romanian - Te iubesc
Russian - Ya tebya liubliu
Scot Gaelic - Tha gra\dh agam ort
Serbian - Volim te
Setswana - Ke a go rata
Sign Language - ,\,,/ (represents position of fingers when signing'I Love You')
Sindhi - Maa tokhe pyar kendo ahyan
Sioux - Techihhila
Slovak - Lu`bim ta
Slovenian - Ljubim te
Spanish - Te quiero / Te amo
Swahili - Ninapenda wewe
Swedish - Jag alskar dig
Swiss-German - Ich lieb Di
Surinam - Mi lobi joe
Tagalog - Mahal kita
Taiwanese - Wa ga ei li
Tahitian - Ua Here Vau Ia Oe
Tamil - Nan unnai kathalikaraen
Telugu - Nenu ninnu premistunnanu
Thai - Chan rak khun (to male)
Thai - Phom rak khun (to female)
Turkish - Seni Seviyorum
Ukrainian - Ya tebe kahayu
Urdu - mai aap say pyaar karta hoo
Vietnamese - Anh ye^u em (to female)
Vietnamese - Em ye^u anh (to male)
Welsh - 'Rwy'n dy garu di
Yiddish - Ikh hob dikh
Yoruba - Mo ni fe

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Love Story : A Guy With 1000 folded Cranes

There was a guy who was very much in love with this girl. The romantic guy folded 1,000 pieces of paper cranes as a gift to his girl. Although, at that time he was just a small executive in his company and his future doesn't seemed too bright, they were very happy together. However one day, his girl told him she is going to Paris and will never come back. She also told him that she cannot visualize any future for the both of them, so she wanted to go separate ways there and then... The guy was heartbroken but he agreed.

When he regained his confidence, he worked hard day and night, slogging his mind and body just to make a name for himself. Finally with plenty of hardwork and the help of friends, he managed to set up his own company.

"You never fail until you stop trying." he always told himself.
"I must make it in life!"

One rainy day, while the guy was driving, he saw an elderly couple sharing an umbrella in the rain walking to some destination. Even with the umbrella, they were still drenched. It didn't take him long to realize those were his ex-girlfriend's parents. He delibrately drove slowly beside the couple,hoping they spot him in his luxury sedan. He wanted them to know that he wasn't the same anymore. He had his own company, car, condominium, etc. He had made it in life!

Before he realized it, the couple was entering a cemetary. He got out of his car and followed them. There, he saw his ex-girlfriend. A photograph of her smiling sweetly as ever at him from her tombstone. He saw his precious paper cranes placed in a bottle beside her tomb. Her parents saw him. He walked over and asked them how did this happen. They explained that she did not leave for France after all. She was ill stricken with cancer. In her heart, she believed that he will make it in life someday. However. she did not want her illness to be his obstacle. Therefore she chose to leave him.

She had wanted her parents to put his paper cranes beside her because if the day comes when fate brings him to her again, he can take some of them back with him. The guy wept miserably. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them but knowing you can't have them and will never see them again.

Lelabi :A tragic story that perhaps happens only in the movies. At the end of the day, money is money but love is divine. In our quest for our material wealth, take time to make time for our loved ones. There will be a time when we have only memories to cling to. 
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Monday 22 August 2011

I'll be your girlfriend for 30 days and you will be my boyfriend

just for illustration purpose ONLY

Derick:
I guess we are the left-overs in this world.

Lily:
I think so...all of my friends have boyfriends, and we are the only the 2 people left in this world without any special person in our lives.

Derick:
Yup, I don't know what to do.

Lily:
I know! We'll play a game.

Derick:
What game?

Lily:
I'll be your girlfriend for 30 days
and you will be my boyfriend.

Derick:
That's a great plan, in fact, I don't have anything to do
much for the following few weeks.

DAY 1:
They watch their first movie
and they both are touched by the romantic film.

DAY 4:
They went go to the beach and have a picnic. Derick and Lily have their quality time together.

DAY 12:
Derick invited Lily to a circus and they ride through a Horror House.
Lily was scared and she thought she touched Derick's hand but she actually touched someone else's hand they both laughed.

DAY 15:
They saw a fortune teller down the road, and they asked for their future advice.
The fortune teller said:
"My darlings, please don't waste the time of your life, spend the rest of your time together, happily." Then tears flowed out from the teller's eyes.

DAY 20:
Lily invited Derick to go to the hill
and they saw a meteor; Lily mumbled something.

DAY 28:
They sat on the bus, and because of a bumpy road Lily gave her first kiss to Derick by accident.

DAY 29:
11:37 pm:
Lily and Derick sat in the park where they first decided to play this game.

Derick:
I'm tired Lily...Do you want anything to drink? I'll buy you one...I'll just go down the road.

Lily:
An Apple Juice, that's all. Thank you.

Derick:
Wait for me.

20 minutes later
A stranger approached Lily

Stranger:
Are you a friend of Derick?

Lily:
Yes, why? What happened?

Stranger:
A reckless drunk driver ran over Derick, and he is in critical condition in the hospital.

11:57 pm:
The doctor walked out of the emergency room; he handed Lily an apple juice and a letter.

Doctor:
We found this in Derick's pocket.

Lily reads the letter and it says:
"Lily, These past few weeks, I realized you are a really cute girl, and I am really falling for you-your cherished smile, your everything when we played this game. Before this game ends, I would like you to be my girlfriend for the rest of my life.
I love you, Lily. "

Lily crumpled up the paper and shouted:

"Derick! I don't want you to die-
I love you; remember that night when we saw a meteor and I mumbled something. I mumbled that I wish we would be together forever and that we would never have to end this game. Please don't leave me Derick .. I love you! You can't do this to me!"

Then the clock strikes 12...

Derick's heart stopped pumping...

It was the 30th day.

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Sunday 21 August 2011

First 22.8.2011

When a GIRL is quiet,
Millions of things are running in her mind

When a GIRL is not arguing,
She is thinking deeply

When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of
questions,
She is wondering how long you will be
around

When a GIRL answers "i'm fine" after a
few seconds,
She is not at all fine

When a GIRL stares at you,
She is wondering why you are lying

When a GIRL lays on your chest,
She is wishing for you to be hers forever

When a GIRL calls you everyday,
She is seeking for your attention

When a GIRL sms's u everyday,
She wants you to reply at least once

When a GIRL says I love you,
She means it

When a GIRL says that she can't live
without you,
She has made up her mind that you are
her future

When a GIRL says "i miss you",
No one in this world can miss you more
than that.

Dear,
1- If I could be any part of you, I’d be your tears. To be conceived in your heart, born in your eyes, live on your cheeks, and die on your lips

2- If I could give you one thing in life, I would give you the ability to see yourself through my eyes, only then would you realize how special you are to me...

3- I miss you when something really good happens, because you're the one I want to share it with. I miss you when something is troubling me, because you're the one who understands me so well. I miss you when I laugh and cry, because I know that you are the one that makes my laughter grow, and my tears disappear. I miss you all the time, but I miss you the most when I lay awake at night, and think of all the wonderful times that we spent with each other for those were some of the best and most memorable times of my life.

Dear, mesti awak terfikir kenapa saya punya entry ini colorful sangat kan? Sebab, entry saya ini mewakili hati saya yang berwarna-warni apabila saya bersama awak.

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Saturday 20 August 2011

An Article With Millions Chapter in it..

Salam sejahtera keatas kamu semua,

Sudah sekian lama Labi-Labi tidak berceloteh didalam blog yang tak la se"GAH" blog anda semua ini, tapi tujuan Labi-Labi menulis blog adalah untuk menyuarakan padangan dan harapan Labi-Labi yang hanya kecil sahaja dimata sebahagian besar manusia yang memandang.. Tapi bagi Labi-Labi harapan dan pandagan Labi-Labi adalah suatu harapan yang amat besar dan bermakna.

Seperti mana yang anda semua tahu, ini adalah blog personal Labi-Labi yang menceritakan tentang kisah hidup Labi-Labi yang picisan yang boleh diibaratkan tidak ada tempat dalam masyarakat. Secara jujur Labi-Labi cakap, siapa kisah apa yang terjadi kepada kita jika kita tidak memberi makna dan manfaat kepada seseorang atau sesuatu komuniti itu sendiri. Betul kan apa pandangan picisan Labi-Labi itu?

Ok, kali ini chapter lain pula kita lompat sekejab..

Sepertimana anda semua tahu, Labi-Labi baru sahaja kembali seperti sediakala dengan Cik Labi-Labi (read : Awek). Yeah, i really appreciate when she was ready to accept me even i told her to start with zero " 0 " back and Alhamdulillah she agreed with my words. 

Ok, now Labi-Labi mengalami suatu perasaan paranoid yang sesungguhnya Labi-Labi amat risau akan kehilangan beliau (read : awek) lagi. Ya, Labi-Labi akui pepatah orang tua-tua cakap " kalau ada jodoh takkan kemana" even sound very very sarcastic &$%$% #@!$#@$#@ tapi ini balasan kepada ayat sarcastic tersebut " Memang lah kalau ada jodoh tak kemana tapi kalau kau duduk diam je tak usaha Allah pun tak bagi jodoh itu kepada engkau ada paham?" demikianlah ayat sarcastic Labi-Labi kepada golongan yang membuka ayat tersebut dihadapan Labi-Labi. 

Labi-Labi amat risau jika Labi-Labi kehilangan beliau lagi kerana Labi-Labi tahu kali ini Labi-Labi tak kan kuat, ya Labi-Labi akur cinta kepada Allah dan Nabi Muhammad serta junjungannya itu lebih besar, tapi tak salah kan jika kita mengikut fitrah manusia yang diciptakan berpasang-pasangan dan berhak dicintai sesama manusia.

Ya! Labi-Labi akui yang Labi-Labi menjadi semakin jealous tapi itu bukan bermakna Labi-Labi nak sekat segala aktiviti, Labi-Labi cuma risau akan kehilangannya lagi sekali.. itu je..

POKOK PANGKALNYA ADALAH RISAU AKAN KEHILANGANNYA THAT'S ALL

Sedang menaip luahan hati yang mungkin tidak akan didengari oleh segelintir masyarakat ini Labi-Labi sempat juga menaip sambil mendengar lagu " Ada Band -  Haruskah Ku Mati ". Lagu ini agak boleh dikatakan menggamit memory lah, tapi bukan memory dalam computer itu oke! dan jugak memory dalam HP anda itu.. ini memory yang ada dalam benak fikiran kita je tak payah nak putar belit lagi ayat Labi-Labi ini lagi oke! Nak dengar lagu itu just click je di tajuk lagu itu kerana Labi-Labi dah linkkan ke YouTUBE dah.

Oke, ini chapter lain pula,

Sedang Labi-Labi tekan " PREVIEW " then Labi-Labi belek-belek di ruangan follower and surprisingly Labi-Labi ternampak ada seorang follower yang bernama " a girl with a nerd boyfriend "  tengok macam kenal je picture itu and JENG JENG JENG its SHAZA.. THANKS SHAZA sebab " tertekan " butang follower blog Labi-Labi yang tak se"GAH" orang lain itu, Labi-Labi betul-betul hargainya Shaza. Sila support Shaza sebab pada pengamatan mata Labi-Labi yang rabun di darat tapi clear di dalam air ini dia adalah seorang blogger baru yang trying to become 1 of us, Syabas Inspector Shahab!* nada wajib macam dalam filem hindustan *

I afraid that i will losing her again


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Friday 5 August 2011

The Power of Women

Tahukah wanita sekeras mana pun seorang lelaki, lelaki itu akan menjadi selembut kapas jika dia telah jatuh cinta (love) kepada seorang wanita.
Benarkah seorang lelaki yang keras hatinya boleh mengalirkan air mata demi seorang wanita? The power of love
Antara tanda-tanda seorang lelaki jatuh cinta (love) kepada seorang wanita :

Love 1. Dia bersungguh-sunguh melakukan sesuatu demi kekasihnya dengan rela bukan kerana terpaksa.
Love 2. Dia sentiasa ingin menghiburkan kekasihnya dan berubah menjadi orang yang kuat bercakap.
Love 3. Dia banyak menasihati kekasihnya kerana dia amat menyayangi kekasihnya.
Love 4. Dia berusaha mengongkong kebebasan kekasihnya kerana perasaan cemburunya yang meluap-luap.
Love 5. Dia sentiasa takut kehilangan kekasihnya.



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